Quote of the day: on men, masculinity, and feminism

Men are caught between an old-fashioned breadwinner ideal and an economic era that no longer delivers the family wage, and are left facing two choices: They can feel terrible about themselves, or they can help to change an outdated ideal. Feminists need to engage men on this issue.

 From this essay (ht) which itself is from Reshaping the work-family debate, by Joan C. Williams.